Strap-ons are faux penises attached to a harness or underwear. Some relationships prefer to have a masculine/feminine component, some don’t. Penetrating your partner or being on top doesn’t make you “the man,” just like going down on someone doesn’t make you “submissive.” When two women are in a relationship, no one needs to sub in as the dude. Myth 2: Someone’s gotta be “the man.” This is a super narrow way of thinking, TBH.
Au contraire! Remember, two people who identify as women don’t necessarily have the same anatomy.īut even if you’re both cis women, everyone has different preferences between the sheets. Myth 1: Lovemaking is easy because you already understand female anatomy. (Thanks to most porn.) Let’s break down the most common misunderstandings.
Unfortunately, there’s a lot of misinformation floating around the internet about lesbian sex. “Someone’s gotta be ‘the man’” and other myths, debunked